Most experts believe it takes at least 30 days to build in a habit. Most people are really good at setting goals, but terrible at actually achieving them. Why? The discipline of Agile is great - sprint planning, following by sprint, followed by sprint retrospective. The process is followed over and over again. Further, every morning our development team gathers for a standing meeting to see how we are doing against those goals. Habits are built consistently over time.
What is different from Agile is that the habits get applied to a goal that never changes. Andy Stanley calls those "Be Goals" (see my post from last year). My goal is to build lifelong habits that cultivate the growth of a Godly man. Not easy when you have a sinful man as raw material. I have been very consistent in my devotionals for the past 3 years because I set the habits in place early. I want to grow in my relationship with Christ and in order to do that, I need to spend time with Him. I am amazed when I talk to Christians who say they aren't growing, but I find they are spending nominal time with the Lord daily. Imagine the stupidity of saying you don't feel close to your spouse because you spend a few minutes with him/her each day. Doesn't work. Further, I build habits where I spend multiple other hours during the day listening to Scripture preached or sung. I am trying to cultivate a biblically-based mindset because we all know the world does not cultivate a godly mind. That is the ONLY shot I have to be a godly man. It does not take much to throw that goal off course.
Many believers use a kind of "drive-through Christianity" where they think they can just get their dose of God each Sunday in church. Meantime our mind is filled with other things. I got all over a brother who said that he was so busy, he could not study the Word or pray. Examine your priorities! Recently, I started ending my day reading biblically-based books. Phillip Yancey, Randy Alcorn, and David Jeremiah are particular favorite authors. I heard our pastor refer to his relationship with God using the following three metaphors which he also applied to marriage.
- Debrief Daily (spend time every day, even if it is just for a few minutes)
- Date Weekly (worship weekly, spend time in fellowship weekly)
- Depart Quarterly (get away for uninterrupted time with God)
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